Desire discrepancy, the difference between partners in their experience of desire for sex and intimacy, affects us all. No two human beings will always want the same experiences at the same time. It is important to normalize desire discrepancy as a fact of being human and not a dysfunction. Interested in diving into the topic of desire discrepancy and some thoughts about solutions? Listen to this episode of Sexxx Talk Radio with Alyssa Royse and Lanae St. John. If you wish to explore if coaching would be a useful experience as you seek solutions to address desire discrepancy, be in touch! I welcome your...
Read MoreTake a moment while you are reading this and experience your body. Breathe deeply. Focus your mental energy on each of your body’s parts: face, shoulders, hips, legs, feet, arms, hands… Now choose a body part. How about your right arm? Let’s go with it. Now imagine you’re your right arm just didn’t exist in your mind. Physically, it is still there, you just simply ignore it. You don’t acknowledge it. You don’t care for it. You certainly don’t use it. It simply lies dormant and neglected. It does actually exist and function. You could choose to embrace it, but you don’t. You move about the world only using your left arm. And there hangs the other, by...
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